With “influence” being such a buzzword, have you considered the very real impact that is happening closer to home?
Even if you don’t feel like it right now…
You are a woman of influence.
In significant ways.
History abounds with stories of women of influence. Culture warriors, advocates for change, and courageous in the face of trial.
They are impressive.
However, there are other, lesser-celebrated women who wield enormous amounts of influence every day in their worlds.
And I believe you're one of them.
You Were Created to Impact the World
Not just the world at large…
But your world.
The one right in front of you every day.
It needs your guidance.
Your offerings.
Your steadfastness.
Let’s reframe the rep of the Proverbs 31 Woman
Our everyday words and actions are where the power begins. When I was a young Christian, I was introduced to a Biblical example in Proverbs 31 of what a woman of excellence could emulate.
It is interesting that we often view the P31 "woman" with fear or comparison in our hearts.
That isn’t God’s intention.
Not at all.
Here is a different view of how I see the power of the P31 woman... a powerful model for an influential woman! Before you think that imperfect women need to apply, kick that thought to the curb.
We are ALL very human and imperfect. (I should know! Read this for a story about a really bad day)
That doesn't mean all of our best qualities are a wash!
A woman’s hands offer love
The power of touch is immeasurable.
Our hugs can be a comfort.
A woman’s heart offers sanctuary
People are safe in our homes and presence—safe from gossip, judgment, and a critical spirit.
Our hearts can be a refuge.
A woman’s courage is legendary
Gentleness is set aside when we see injustice.
Our hearts release warriors when challenge approaches.
A woman’s intellect challenges
We continue to grow and learn, curious about the world.
Our minds invite others to do the same.
A woman’s tenacity is fierce
Once our minds are set, there’s little that can hinder us.
Our determination inspires others.
A woman’s tenderness offers
The world needs a safe place to be vulnerable.
Our softness is a gift.
A woman’s passion sets an example
Our spark may not be shared by everyone, but it still ignites hope in others.
Our enthusiasm gives permission for others to find their own.
A woman’s love offers security
Our loyalty is steadfast.
Our love reflects the heart of Jesus.
A woman’s generosity brings hope
We often understand emotional need from experience.
Our offerings remind others that someone cares.
Becoming a Woman of Influence
Wonder who the most influential woman is?
Ask the people in your world.
It isn't a random figure from history, it’ll be the one who shows up for them personally.
Your philosophy regarding matters of influence greatly determines the outcome of your intentions. Minimizing the power of our words, actions or beliefs reduces their potential.
Understanding and embracing the posture of a woman’s responsibility that comes with influence is impressive!
Influence — to lead or direct.
Today, you might be drowning in housework…
Holding a crying baby for what seemed like 19 hours straight…
Feeling frustrated in your family relations.
The world doesn’t always celebrate the ordinary mundane tasks of living an imperfect life.
None of us have it all together.
Thankfully, that isn’t required.
Faithfulness is more powerful than perfection.
Showing up imperfectly still counts.
A Prayer to Be a Woman of Wisdom
My friend, you are a woman of influence.
God’s own precious design, with a personalized community of people who need what YOU have to offer. Celebrate your life, and treasure your significance.
Encourage those around you to do the same. Imagine the dynamic change that would follow.
You may never know all the ways your life touched others, but know this:
It did.
It does.
It will.
You can download a free printable prayer based on Proverbs 31 here.
Pin it somewhere visible this week—as a gentle reminder of who you already are.
Let’s keep walking this journey together.
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Let it be lovely,
Christa
P.S. If you missed Tuesday’s audio, it was one of the most vulnerable things I’ve shared…about how we wonder if what we are doing really matters. Check it out here.